Little Baby Rizzo

As men, it's part of our nature to be problem solvers.  I can't count the times I've been told by women, "Just listen to my problem...stop trying to fix everything."  I guess its the logic of men to see an issue, assess the problem, and think of a suitable solution to the problem.  Women, well they're just more emotional.  Sometimes they just want to cry...sometimes they just want to be upset and let the emotion and feeling take its course.  Now add in the extra hormones that come with a pregnancy, and the rollercoaster of fun really begins! 



I wish I could take away all of Leslie's pain, nausea, aches, and discomfort.  But the reality is I can't and the more I try to fix anything, the more I feel like I get in the way.  So I'm practicing patience...and for anyone that knows me, you know I may seem like a pretty laid back guy...but with a hot temper.  I can thank my Southern Italian roots for that one.  We can't help it...we're passionate and spicy! 

So many new challenges and experiences are happening for us now and no matter how prepared you may think you are, the truth is you can't ever be fully prepared.  I have my parenting books (Dad's guide to pregnancy for Dummies! and more...lol), but how do I really prepare for tears flowing down Leslie's face because smells disgust her or the overall frustration of constantly being sick, tired, and uncomfortable.  There is no guide...there are no set rules to follow.  I'm human and I know I'm going to mess up along the way, but I know (or like to believe) even if it doesn't seem like it, I'm helping somewhat.  My support is making it a little easier for her.  My foot massages are making it easier for her ;)



Lots of changes in our lives now, but we're learning to get through it.  We're learning to rely on each other and be patient with each other.  Because in the end, after all the struggle, we get the greatest gift in the world and it will all be well worth it.  I wish I could explain all the steps and missteps along our journey, but each day is filled with things that i don't know how to explain and unexpected turns.  But we are pleased to share our journey with you all and thankful you are part of the ride. 

1st trimester will soon be in the rear-view and brighter days are just beyond the horizon.

Until then...Namaste!